So for the next couple of years we continued to venture to the clubs playing on our own. Not sure what it is about life style people, but many of the women are bi sexual or bi curious, meaning there is a willingness to explore. I have my theories as to why this is which are likely more multi faceted.
When attending these sex clubs, many women have no problem coming up to you to chat or in some cases become quite assertive and decide to kiss you to see if maybe they like it. Either way, I am not a fan. I had one woman who was really interested in me and pursued me like crazy. She was clearly bi sexual and had zero interest in any of the men. She married a man much older than herself and I completely believe that was by design. Like wtf? He just followed her around and chatted a little with whom ever he could and in no way was interested in anything more. A marriage of convenience, for her anyway.
At the end of the day I was just not interested and have zero desire to be with women. In fact I questioned myself and truly thought there was something wrong with me because it seemed most women were in some way at least bi curious.
As I said above, I have my theories as to why so many women are bi sexual or bi curious within the lifestyle, so I thought I would share what is likely to be a very unpopular opinion. So here goes;
- Because it such an open way to explore our sexuality and the novelty of it has us exploring.
- A way to somehow enjoy some aspect of swinging because so many of the men are just blah! Especially the older ones.
- This one I think is more likely the reality for many although most will never admit it. I think many women use the “I want to play with women” as a means to distract the significant other. Another words they are jealous of their partners having sex with other women. So by pretending to get off playing with women, the male partner has less time to devote his undivided attention on another.
- Some buy into the mindset that it is a cool thing to do.
- The male half pushes them to pretend for their own ignorant selfish desires. That way she has to do all the work to pursue while he sits on his fat fucking ass taking it all in. These types disgust me. The asshole pimp from fucking hell.
- And then there are the ones who like to show off for their partners or others hoping it turns them on to see play with a woman. Also a sad and desperate show in my opinion and have seen my fair share of that. Once again giving into the male ego. Yuck.
- Then there are the real bi sexual ladies out there, albeit a very small percentage, you can tell these types truly enjoy each other and are not at all distracted by anyone else including their partners. These men know their partners truly enjoy and often leave them to themselves. My favorite group by far.
So in as much as many will wail and cry foul, this is the reality I see.
My advice, ladies stop pretending and do this for the right reasons or just end it already. I am tired of seeing this fake behavior. We are worth so much more and should be allowed to enjoy men we are attracted to. No settling for just OK to please.
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